Wednesday, 4 April 2018

Feminism, A red-hot topic.


Lying on the couch bought by my father under the ceiling of the house registered on my father’s name by using the Smartphone he gifted to me scrolling the newsfeed I found several posts on the emerging topic of Feminism being a girl this glitter attracts me, The moment I opened the attachments of the post I saw some pure pieces of embarrassment.




KYUN ?

Imagine saying this to your father, He’s giving you his days and nights just to hear that now he's supposed to make his chapatti too, why? Because it’s against feminism if women can make chappati then why can’t men.







“Kitni chadiren kafi hongi ?” 

Can this be even a question of a Muslim?
Absolutely not!
I myself is not a bigot neither I follow all the basics of Islam but then I DO NOT TAKE THE UMBRELLA OF FEMINISM to make my all deeds socially acceptable.

And then after all this, the reality of Pakistan’s women continues to confound easy categorization. They have been going to school and university, holding down jobs and earning money for several generations now. Yet they still live with widespread gender-based violence, society’s acceptance of women as property, and a widespread belief that they don’t deserve education, jobs or an existence outside the domestic sphere.


If they say Feminism is all about Liberty then, Liberalism is not about wearing fewer clothes it's about liberty of getting basic rights. Liberty of standing for your basic rights, Liberty of getting an education before being forced into marriages, Liberty of choosing a career of own choice. But liberty is NOT about teaching men to not to stare at you when you reveal yourself to the world. 

Because when you can say "Mera jism meri marzi "
They can also say "Meri ankein Meri marzi "


And if they declare Feminism as Equality, then its Equality of respect, Equality in having equal ratio of education for both men and women, Equal opportunities for both, Equal wedges for both. Equal rights on the bus’s seat, Equal rights in lifting heavy weights.
No offence for girls wearing fewer clothes or asking others for letting them wear fewer clothes because it’s how their parenting is done.


But for God's sake please correct your basics first and get your facts straight!
Feminist is not about imposing your ideas and thoughts on others it's about fighting for the basic rights for all the women 


I haven't heard even single voice raised about opposing physical abuse against women or being forced into getting married before completing the education in all fuss they have created on the roads. 

I wonder what is the definition of freedom in their dictionary.


Do they want to be bold, vulgar, garish, brassy?  They already are.
I can’t understand what else they want !!

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